Kink archetype guides
These are practical guides, not tests. There is nothing to score and nothing to prove. Each guide explains one archetype in plain English: what it means, what it looks like, green and red flags, and how to explore it safely.
Most people identify with more than one archetype. That is normal. The goal is to help you recognize patterns in what appeals to you and give you language to communicate those preferences clearly.
If you want a structured quiz to explore your preferences across archetypes, start with the kink archetype quiz. It is fast, private, and does not require an account.
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Take a quick quiz to see which archetypes show up in your preferences. It is free, private, and takes a few minutes.
All archetype guides
Dominant
Takes control, leads the dynamic, and guides the experience with intention.
Submissive
Yields control, follows direction, and finds freedom in surrender.
Switch
Flows between dominant and submissive depending on mood or partner.
Primal
Raw, instinctual energy. Connected to the animalistic side of play.
Voyeur
Enjoys watching others. Appreciates the pleasure of observation.
Exhibitionist
Thrives on being watched, enjoys performing or displaying.
Rope Bunny
Loves being tied. Finds peace, beauty, or pleasure in bondage.
How to use these guides
Click on any archetype to read the full guide. Each page includes:
- A plain-English explanation of the archetype
- What it can look like in practice
- Green flags and red flags to watch for
- How to explore safely with consent and boundaries
- A mini self-check with reflection questions (not a scored test)
- A short script for talking about it with a partner
- Related archetype guides and a link to the quiz
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