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Body-safe sex toys, ranked on materials

18+ · Adult products

Nobody regulates what goes into a sex toy. Not in the US, not in the UK, not in the EU. The only international safety standard — ISO 3533, published in 2021 — is entirely voluntary, and no one audits compliance with it.

Which makes one question more useful than every review score on the internet: does the company tell you what its product is made of, in writing, before you buy? Seven stores passed that test. They are the only seven we link to anywhere in this section.

What we will not tell you is that this makes you safe. The best research available abrasion-tested four toys and found phthalates above hazard thresholds in every one of them — including the silicone one. All four shed micro- and nanoplastics; the silicone one shed the least by a wide margin. So this section is about reducing the risks that can actually be measured, not about pretending they are gone.

The seven stores we endorse

Ranked in full, with the reasoning, on the brands page.

1

Tantus

100% ultra-premium silicone

Its own formula, a published toxicology panel, third-party quality verification — and the whole range is boilable, bleachable and dishwasher safe. Nobody else can write that sentence.

Visit Tantus
2

Womanizer

5-year warranty on everything

A full material table on every product page, made without phthalates, BPA or latex — and stimulation that never presses directly on the most sensitive tissue there is.

Visit Womanizer
3

LELO

States ISO 3533 compliance

The only brand here that names the international safety standard it builds to, and the only one whose motors justify the price on engineering alone.

Visit LELO
4

Lovense

Body-safe silicone, no phthalates

Publishes a material line per product — including on the two where that line honestly reads TPE — and remains unmatched on app and long-distance control.

Visit Lovense
5

Lovehoney

100-day money-back guarantee

The widest range anywhere, own-brand lines in body-safe silicone, and a returns policy that covers toys you have actually opened and used.

Visit Lovehoney
6

Kiiroo

Modular by design

The best interactive hardware for men, built so the non-porous machine outlives the porous sleeve — which is the right architecture for a material that cannot be sterilised.

Visit Kiiroo
7

Bellesa Boutique

Body-safe silicone under $20

Women-founded and women-led, answering the question the premium brands do not: what should somebody buy for twenty dollars that is not PVC?

Visit Bellesa Boutique

What to buy, and what to walk away from

Buy

  • 100% silicone. Non-porous, so nothing gets inside it, and with no sealed electronics it can be boiled — genuinely sterilised, not just wiped.
  • Glass, steel and hard ABS. Also non-porous and easy to clean, if the firmness suits you.
  • Anything with a published spec. A named material on the product page is the single best signal available in an unregulated category.

Avoid

  • Soft PVC and “jelly”. Softened with plasticisers; the 2006 Danish EPA survey and Greenpeace’s testing found high levels of DEHP, now classified by ECHA as toxic to reproduction.
  • Unnamed “body-safe material”. If a company will not name it, treat that as the answer.
  • TPE where you have a choice. Porous and impossible to sterilise. Unavoidable in realistic strokers — so use a condom, dry it fully, and replace it rather than keeping it.

For adults (18+). Materials, prices and warranties are quoted from each manufacturer’s own published specifications at the time of writing and change without notice — verify them on the product page before purchasing. Prices are approximate bands, not quotes. Nothing here is medical advice.